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Top 10 cruel things women do to men revealed

 Washington: Despite being known as the fairer sex, women can be downright nasty and often do cruel things to men.

Now, Fox News has compiled a list of top 10 cruel things that women do to men and how they play with the guy's emotions or ego.

10. They don't pick up the phone

While men feel good as they manage to take the girls' phone number, the girls often give them a fake number or don't pick up the call.

9. Use men for free drinks

Some women go out never planning to spend any of their own money on drinks at the bar or club. Instead, they count on their feminine wiles to convince guys to shell out for their libations. While some of them might begin to get to know him, the cruel and heartless ones will take that drink, flirt a little and move on.

8. Use men as placeholders

If she is a decent person, she'll just get it over with and dump the boy, but if she's cruel, she'll hold on to him for a while until somebody new comes along. These girls don't like to be alone and without a relationship, so instead of putting you out of your misery and ending it, she'll string you along until she meets someone to replace you.

7. Emotionally manipulate men

Men don't like to see women cry and some cruel women take advantage of the fact and use it to get what they want. A few tears would make men do anything to get it to stop.

6. Use physical violence

While men hitting girls are often termed nasty, some cruel women feel it's perfectly acceptable to hit their boyfriends, as he would never hit her back. This type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind physical pain on him without fear of repercussion.

5. Criticize their men in public

Cruel women criticize and humiliate their men in public places. They often poke fun at her man or even soundly debase him.

4. They don't disclose their relationship status

It's certainly not the worst thing a woman could do to a man, but it is annoying when she's already in a relationship and lets you assume that she's available so that she can enjoy the man's flirtation and flattery.

3. They withhold sex

This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective.

2. They test their men

You're all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn't have any particular reason; she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you'd come over to her place instead. If her request comes with an "if you really loved me," then it's a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you're going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty.

1. They flirt to inspire jealousy

Maybe she's feeling under-appreciated, maybe you've just had a big fight or maybe she just enjoys the tortured look on your face. For whatever reason, girls who flirt obviously with other guys in front of their boyfriends are immature and manipulative.

Cheating is a common problem in most relationships. People find out everyday that they have been cheated on. Sometimes they catch it when they don't expect to and sometimes people are smart enough to put the pieces of the puzzle together to find out and confirm that they are being cheated on.

Unfortunately, there are people that think they are safe from being cheated on. Therefore, they could be getting cheated on and don't even know it. Sometimes they may just be blind to see the signs of cheating. Sometimes they put a little too much trust in their partner.

But there are some cases where people will think that they will not get cheated on. Maybe they are too good looking to get cheated on. Maybe they have been told that they will never be cheated on. They have so much confidence in their partner and maybe in themselves.

This is where some people can look like a fool. As far being too good looking to get cheated on, that is just bull. If a partner wants to cheat, they will cheat no matter how good you look. Although trust is key to making a relationship work, believing everything your partner tells you is not always the best thing to do.

You can be the best looking person and have the perfect partner but anyone is capable of cheating. It may feel good to think that your partner would never cheat on you but the truth is that you never really know what your partner is capable of.

They could use the fact that you are so confident in yourself and the relationship and cheat. In their mind, they will probably think "Well she thinks I would never cheat on her so maybe I could get away with it if I did cheat".

Don't be blind when it comes to the signs of cheating. If you think something is not right, you should investigate further and seek the truth. Even though you may have a blissful relationship and your partner may say to you that they will never cheat on you, keep in mind that you can still get cheated on. Hopefully that doesn't happen and they are truthful with their words but just in case they are not, you won't end up looking like a fool.

So you want to know how to catch online cheating husbands. Then reading this article is a wise decision on your part. Here you will find valuable information about the ways you can catch your spouse red handed.

The Internet is a very useful tool for the most parts. It has made our lives easier in so many ways. Through it, we can learn, meet new people and even make money. But like any tool, the Internet can be used both for good and for bad. Cheating husbands of course choose to use it to meet women with whom they can have a cyber affair with. If you think your husband is one of these individuals then you should immediately take action before things get out of hand and the cyber love affair becomes a real affair that can really destroy your marriage.

To know how to catch online cheating husbands, you must fight fire with fire. He is using technology to cheat on you then you should use technology also to fight back. There are software available that you can use to check on your husband's online activity without him knowing it. With these software you will know exactly the sites that he regularly visits, the persons he is communicating with and even the messages that he is sending.

Do not worry abut your husband finding out about your snooping activities because these software are 100% undetectable. Your husband will not have any idea that he is being monitored already.

The software is easy to install and will give you all the information you are looking for but most importantly it will allow you to find out the truth. Find out the truth if your husband is cheating or not.

If you know of any man who have ever cheated and you do not understand their reasons why they did so here are some light on this difficulty that many people faces.

Want to feel appreciated

Many men want to feel appreciated and once they get married they feel it becomes routine and who they were before marriage is lost.

Want to feel that they still look good

Many men fear growing old and they want to feel that they still have the ability to attract other beautiful women.

Fear of missing out

As many men grow older they feel when they are with one woman that they maybe missing out on what could be with another.

Fear of commitment

Some men fear commitment because it means that they are tied down and they can no longer play the field.

Some say that they want to settle down but are afraid and feel that their life is over because they will be force to follow what they agreed on which is they want to have their cake and eat it too.

Adding to their trophy

Some men cheat because they look at woman as a trophy and how much they can have so they can brag about it or to feel that they have conquered.

Fear of being vulnerable

Many men are afraid of opening themselves to share, to them it is a women thing and if they were to open up, women will have one up on them.

Opening and sharing men emotion is asking them to talk about feeling that was not welcome or given a voice to them when they were small.

Some men do not know how to open and share their feeling because they were never taught or welcome as a child and when they did it was look upon for some as not masculine enough.

Fear of having only one person all the time

For some men are afraid of being bored with they same woman because they are afraid that they will be bored of the same routine in everything.

Fear of making a mistake

Some men are afraid of having the same woman all the time because if they make a mistake then all of the family will know about it and it will ruin the in-laws lives because of what they have invested in their daughter's marriage.

Fear of becoming serious

Some men cheat because when they get hook up with a woman they feel she is demanding and the fun goes out of her, she becomes serious so they will accept this knowing that they can have something going with another.

Fear of becoming dependent

Some men cheat because if the woman that they are with said that she has a headache and there are no intimacy when he wants it then he does not have to worry he can go out and get it from another so he does not become dependent on her.

Fear of abandonment

Some men cheat because they fear of being abandon by a woman if they invest too much in her or the relationship and if they have another woman on the side it will not hurt as much because they have some else to replace her.

Fear of losing their freedom

Some men cheat because they are afraid of losing their freedom when they get involve with another either for a long term relationship or marriage.

Some men cheat because they feel that they are restricted on who, what or when they go out because they will be check up on so they have to hide.

Fear that she will be controlling

Some men fear that they will have a woman who is controlling their life like they see with their father or other men so they rather play the feel because they do not know how long they will have to be single.

Fear of taking their place

Other men fear to take their place because that will mean that they will be responsible for another and they do not want that so they rather hide act innocent and have an affair because they feel a sense of freedom.

Conclusion: Some men cheat for many different reason and to all of them the desire to do so is much stronger than not to do so.

Most methods of catching a cheater involves thorough investigation and time to actually catch them. Then some people make the mistake of getting caught trying to find out what their partner has been doing behind their backs. Well there is a technique you can use to catch any cheater easily and quickly.

The best part is that the suspected cheater would have no idea that you done this technique. It's confidential so there would be no evidence that you even checked up on your partner. It's also convenient. You do not even have to leave your house to do it.

The technique involves looking up numbers. When combined with a good reverse phone directory, this technique can beat private investigators and other methods of catching a cheater. It is so simple to do and you get the information that will be used to catch the cheater in seconds.

What you basically do is find any suspicious numbers that you can get a hold to. You input the numbers into the reverse phone directory and then you learn the name and full address of the owner of those numbers. Knowing the identity of the person who is in contact with your partner can tell you a lot of things.

Especially if you carefully examine when the number shows up, where you found the numbers, how long the calls from that number lasts, and so forth. You can also tell from your results if it is someone of the opposite sex. There could also be a name that shows up that matches the name of an ex or someone you partner used to like or went out with.

Cheaters communicate with their secret lover. This is usually done by phone. So if you run a check on some of the numbers that your partner dials or receives calls from, you could be closer to finding out if they are cheating.

Not everyone could afford to purchase a beachside mansion or cottage tucked away in the mountains for the sole purpose of a two-week vacation every summer. However, purchasing a segment of that home or condominium unit comes within most people's reach to make their dream vacation a reality. Timeshare vacations are made possible by the conception of time sharing.

Timeshare vacations are guided by the concept of time sharing that has in essence two different kinds. The first type is deeded ownership, which is the timeshare you bought in a piece of a real estate that gives you full grant of the unit during a defined week or weeks in a year. The second type is when you buy a lease, license or membership that lets you use various properties within a timeshare resort like a villa and its amenities and services for a defined week or weeks in the coming years.

Timeshare vacations can be found in the most desired tourist destinations in the world. These destinations are strategically located near pristine beaches, theme and amusement parks, popular sightseeing attractions, recreational activities, and eco-tourism activities.

Consumers who wish to treat their families to first-class vacations, but must stay within confined budgets, are often attracted to these idyllic destinations.

Timeshare vacations are available with various buying times. These dream trips can be "floating", giving you a choice of possible vacation weeks, or "fixed", requiring you to choose one week in the calendar year.

It is these distinctions that contribute to the set price of your timeshare vacation. Be on the lookout for additional incentives, packages and discounts that will bring extra savings.

Look for a timeshare resort that offers valuable extras based on a "points" system. These plans can provide freebies and discount coupons on meals, tourist attractions, cruises, gift vouchers and more.

Leasing, Buying and Selling Your Timeshare Vacation

Once you purchase a timeshare vacation, it's yours to use for as long as your agreement is in place. If you can't use the property, you should have options available. Many people sublet or lease their timeshares, while other people trade them away or sell them off. Renters are exempt from paying taxes for timeshare ownership, making them popular choices of vacationers. Compared to the original cost, the price of the timeshare vacation is usually more affordable.

Vacationers choose to buy timeshares because the condo units typically provide more amenities than a standard hotel room. Further, the resale prices can be as much as sixty percent less than the original price. Original prices can easily range from $10,000 to $30,000, depending on the location, resort, unit size and type of timeshare.

Timeshare vacations are popular because they allow full privacy while providing all the amenities and services offered by first-class hotels. Marriott, Hyatt, Trendwest/World Mark, Hilton, Starwood, Walt Disney Company and Fairfield are among the well-known hotel chains that lead the market in selling timeshare vacations.

Trading Your Timeshare Vacation

Trading your timeshare vacation with another timeshare owner is another option. Exchange companies give owners the opportunity to pay a membership fee and swap their timeshare vacations. The world's most notable exchange companies are Resort Condominiums International (R.C.I.) and Intervals International or (I.I.).

These exchange companies can, in essence, assist you in trading your timeshare property by depositing some or all of the vacation time you own into their system. At your convenience, you can then withdraw a comparable amount of time at another vacation destination of your choice. Both O.K. and I.E. are affiliated with timeshare vacation sites around the world, making your destination choices virtually limitless.

Timeshare vacations are also very easy to book thanks to the professional assistance given by timeshare vacations clubs and timeshare companies. These companies provide comprehensive listings of thousands of resorts that sell timeshare vacations and find the one that would best suit your needs and budget.

At a fraction of the cost of normal hotel rates, travelers can enjoy first-class holidays with timeshare vacations.

 Excessive sweating is a medical condition called as hyperhidrosis. This is characterized by sweating a lot which may be nonstop the whole day through. The affected person may even sweat despite cold temperature. Excessive sweating may also happen when the affected person is stressed out, nervous, or anxious.

The release of sweat may occur in the areas of the body which have more sweat glands such as the hands, feet, face, groin, and armpits. The usual case is that this medical condition is inherited, in which the disease is considered as primary hyperhidrosis. However, there are also cases in the minority when excessive sweating is an offshoot of other medical problems. This is when the disease is called secondary hyperhidrosis.

Certain conditions which can result to secondary hyperhidrosis are those diseases affecting the lungs and heart, diabetes mellitus, anxiety problems, and certain medications taken to cure these diseases. These conditions result to secondary hyperhidrosis because they affect the operation of the hypothalamus, which controls how the human body sweats, and the sympathetic nervous system.

Excessive sweating can affect the sufferers not only physically but also socially and psychologically as well. Most sufferers would draw themselves out of the social scene, cutting their social lives off because they are embarrassed of having contracted the disease. Psychologically, the disease can shatter the self-esteem of the affected people. When they have low opinions of themselves, they usually hide themselves and as a result, do not open themselves up to building new relationships with other people.

There are available treatments for excessive sweating. Aluminum chloride solution can be used to reduce the amount of sweat that would be released. This solution can be found in many antiperspirants which can be prescribed by doctors. However, this may not be totally effective for excessive sweating on the hands and feet.

The users should also prepare themselves for skin irritation. Endoscopic Thoracic Sympathectomy or ETS is one surgical procedure which can be taken to cure the disease. This can work effectively on the excessive sweating of the armpits. This will remove the sweat glands in the said area. However, this may result to side effects such as excessive sweating on the back, legs, thighs, and abdomen, which is another bout of problem.

Oral medication can also be taken as the solution to the disease. For instance, Ditropan can be taken to reduce sweating but its side effects include dry mouth and drowsiness.

  It may seem that everything is the same or even in the deciding which teeth
whiteners to use for yourself. There is a vast difference from the lower tier
versus the upper level products one can obtain for next to nothing online.

Teeth whiteners are designed for many different things and several different
buying markets dictated by consumer demand are out there. One of the most
logical ones is the pure whitening market whereby consumers are looking for the
maximum in a whitening experience.

Another is when you are looking for the more natural whiteners rather than just
the best teeth whiteners relative to an ultra or super white look. This
is when the whitening consumer realizes that they may want a couple of shades
differential as compared to where they are now and also look for nutrition or
sensitive teeth styles to use.

When your looking for this type, your mindset is 'don't give me an unnatural
white that everyone will see through' but merely 'get me whiter than I am now
and don't upset my sensitive teeth in the meantime'.

There fortunately are whitening products geared for just this that allow for
a more subtle upgrade rather than the deep enamel penetration types. But what
if I want the best of both worlds and get the gentle formula coupled with a
max. whitening that will leave me practically giddy.

There are a couple of nuggets of gold online that can do just this but you have
to find these via a good review site that specializes in teeth whitening and
uncovers the truth and reveals the upside of these products vs. the rest of the
field.

What is the largest factor in determining the overall needs you may have in
selecting a teeth whitener? Ease of use could be a solid argument but it still
isn't the number one. The way to determine your needs is simple. Guage your
needs by determining your yellowing issue; decide whether you have sensitive
or semi-sensitive teeth to take into account, and then decide if you need a
straight power white style or sensitive type.

All of the needs are individual and depend on each individual respectively,
however, there should be no doubt that getting your teeth whitened is now
an easier and more common vanity activity than ever before.

 It can be extremely frustrating having a game of yours get stuck in your Xbox 360 system. The natural reaction is to freak out and try to rip it out. Then again you could take it into Microsoft or some repair shop to get the game out. However, if you want to save money you can get it out yourself by purchasing or downloading an Xbox 360 repair guide.

There are ways for you to manually remove the disc on your own. The first thing your Xbox 360 repair guide will tell you to do is unplug the power for a few minutes while allowing your Xbox to reset. After this you will want to re-attach the power cord to see if this did the trick. If you did not receive any results, turn the power off and unplug it again.

Now things will get a little more complicated making it essential you follow each step in your Xbox 360 repair guide closely. Next you will remove the face plate on the console while grabbing a thick paper clip or something similar and straighten one end of the paper clip. After removing the face plate you will see two small holes underneath the DVD player and one hole to the right.

The next step will vary being that there are three different DVD drives the Xbox 360 uses. If you have a Samsung or Toshiba, your Xbox 360 repair guide will advise you to find the small hole on the right underneath the X on the DVD drive faceplate. You will push your straightened paper clip in the hole until it hits the gear. The gear needs to be spun from left to right. You will want to continue to push gently until you feel it move.

If you have a Hitatchi DVD drive, you are going to want to poke the first hole on the left. Follow the same procedures that are listed above by poking the hole to get the gear to move. Regardless of what type of DVD drive you have, it is vital you take your time and do not push too hard. If you miss the correct spot you can do more damage than good.

As soon as the tray starts to eject you will be able to pull on it slightly to help it open. From there, you will have no problem removing your game thanks to the helpful Xbox 360 repair guide saving you hundreds of dollars.

  In many civilizations across the world, tattooing the body by means of inserting ink into the layers of skin on the body has had much cultural significance. Nearly every civilization has practiced some form of body tattooing. For some a tattoo might be a symbol of some type of cultural meaning. For some it may represent status or wealth, for others it may have religious significance, and for others it may be purely decorative or represent some personal meaning, such as a declaration of love. Whatever the purpose, tattooing has a long history among every culture and has become an art form requiring skill and experience.

The earliest known documented cases of a tattoo on bodies were originally found on several female Egyptian mummies, which dated back to around c. 2000 B.C. However, the discovery of the "Ice Man" in 1991, a mummy found near the Italian-Austrian border, pushed that date back to about 3000 B.C. This mummy had tattoos on his lower back, right knee, and ankle joints, suggesting that they had been done for therapeutic purposes in areas with painful joints.

In ancient Egypt, tattooing seemed to be an exclusive female practice. At first dismissed as a possible sign of promiscuity or low character, scientists now believe that perhaps the tattoos found on female Egyptian mummies had a different meaning altogether. Because some of the mummies were found in tombs associated with royalty, the initial belief changed. It is now hypothesized that they were, in fact, symbols of protection for women enduring childbirth.

Perhaps the most significant civilization to practice that art of tattoo is the Polynesian culture. In fact, the word "tattoo" comes from the Tahitian word "tautau," a word that was introduced to the Western World after the explorations of Captain James Cook in Polynesia. When early explorers discovered the Pacific Islands, they were amazed by the painted skin of the natives and also the techniques used to apply these tattoos. For thousands of years to the present time, Polynesian cultures, specifically Samoans, have used the same tattooing technique of applying by hand. In Polynesian cultures, tattoos had very special significance, usually symbols of status or coming-of-age.

Though the methods have changed, decorating the body through the insertion of ink into the skin layers has remained a thriving art form. To some the meaning is still cultural but most modern tattooing is usually done for personal meaning or for decoration as one of the oldest thriving art forms in the world.

 If you want to have the most wonderful marine aquarium in your own home, you have to first choose what kind of fishes you will put in it. More over, you have to be able to maintain your aquarium. This requires patience and motivation. Having a salt-water aquarium is not that hard after all.

Choosing the Right Fish for Your Saltwater Aquarium
The first step is to decide on the number of fish you want to house in your aquarium. Make a rough estimate on how many fish will fit spaciously in your aquarium. As a rule, you have to allow two inches of fish with every gallon of water in the tank.

Buy all the fish you need from a licensed pet shop or a reputable dealer. Buying from a good source will save you all the hassle and troubles. You will clearly buy the best and healthy fishes rather than the ones who are sick and may be more likely to die after a few days. The credibility of the seller is determined in his showcase aquarium. The look of the sellers tank may become a motivational source for you.

Research and read more about the type of fish you want. Some fishes require particular needs such as diet, compatibility, temperature, and chemicals.

Buy a school of fish for there are only minimal compatibility problems. In addition, it will be easy to determine if any fishes are indicating an illness or whatsoever. Try the cardinal tetras or neons, loaches or pearl, Corydoras catfish, zebra danios and any of all the barbs.

Do not risk buying one of anything you like. Just stick to the school of fish rather than get different kinds of fish. The aquarium will be difficult to manage and maintain when there are different species of fish.

Try to get a clown plecostomus or bristle-nose. You may also want to get two otocinclus catfish to control the algae in the tank.

You may also want to raise a killifish. This kind of fish is easy to maintain and perfect for beginners though the killifish is very difficult to find.

Always ask you dealer about the fish compatibility in your aquarium. Take good caution of the cichlids for some of them can grow large. In addition, the angelfish need aquariums more than ten gallons. A type of fish called Oscars is quite messy and not preferable for your tank. Oscars tend to eat fish and can be particularly messy.

Keep away from buying piranhas. Piranhas are impressive creatures but they tend to eat a lot of goldfish as well as other fishes in your aquarium. In addition, mixing piranhas with other fishes may cause issues on parasites and diseases. If you really want to buy piranhas, you must watch their diet and quarantine them in a different aquarium. Piranhas are considered a school fish but they tend to eat one another if they are not fed properly.

You may want to get bala sharks. This type of fish looks fierce and wonderful plus it is not really a shark. It grows over twelve inches. This is recommended to those who want to grow large fishes.

In general, avoid buying a catfish. This fish can be nasty predators. Catfish tend to grow bigger and bigger over time. So, if you rally want a catfish, be prepared for the problems that may arise.

 Six years ago I divorced my first wife, moved to the UK, and married my second wife. At the time her sons were three and four. After only a short time I loved them as my own. In fact I allowed a part of me to believe that’s is what they were. I began to chase this fantastical belief with great passion and focus spurred on by my wife’s approval and their acceptance. It seemed so perfect. My dreams and plans continued to soar year after year. Then one day, three years after my arrival, I became brave enough to share my thoughts and feelings with the boys. I even told them that I’d be honoured if they’d call me Dad. My heart was filled with pride and joy when they initially embraced the idea (in fact one even literally cheered).

Two days later I was gutted! When the boys returned from a visit with their paternal father wound up and distraught over a conversation they had with him. After speaking with him, both felt that I’d made a force play and put them in a position that I had no right to. What could I do but watch all my preconceptions burst into flames and wonder about what role I’d have in the lives of the boys. I felt furious at their father for causing them to rise against me. I blamed him for stealing them from me for months.

Looking back at this scenario years later I can still feel the desolation I felt back then, but I can also look back with more understanding and wisdom. I didn’t realise it at the time, but I was really being selfish. I convinced myself I was doing the best thing for the boys when in reality it would’ve been the best thing for me. You see, when I divorced my first wife, she went against everything we agreed on and took full custody of my three children. So, when I arrived in the UK I arrived with a huge hole in my heart. I missed my children so very much and I saw the potential of the boys filling that void. Without thinking about it, I’d foisted my need off onto the boys and persuaded myself I was doing them a service. And I stayed in that fantasy for three years until that fateful day when they set me straight.

Walking into a family and becoming a stepfather is a huge task. It must be done with a great amount of humility and the understanding that you’re there as an extension to the children’s family rather than a replacement (except in cases where the paternal father has done a runner of course). And believe me, it never ceases to be a balancing act. A stepfather must support the healthy growth of his children whilst being oh so careful not to undermine what they have going with their paternal father. Sometimes I feel like I spend more time trying to make things balance out than developing a deep relationship with the boys. Though this may or may not genuinely be the case, the bottom line is that’s what the boys need in order to function and grow so that’s what I’ll do for as long as they need it. Though I’ll always be a bit jealous of the stepfathers that get the title of “Dad” from the willing hearts of their stepchildren, I have finally found a peace with just being “Paul” to mine.

To any of you men who read this who are either stepfathers or about to become so, please consider this advice. Take the entire process slow and before you attempt to make any moves forward in your relationships with your stepchildren search your heart and ask yourself, “Is this move forward the very best for the children?” If you get the slightest niggles it might not be, then stop. If you truly love your stepchildren make sure you’re putting their needs and not your own first.

 It all started early Saturday morning whilst my wife and I sat in bed talking and sipping our morning cups of coffee. Excitedly she reached down and hauled her notebook computer into bed with us. Just the prior day we’d joined a program that allowed us to visit hundreds of historical sites for free, and she could hardly wait to select one off the web to go visit. When I suggested that perhaps we should pass on that Idea and just go somewhere local, everything changed. She stopped smiling, closed down the computer, and grabbed a book to read. As any married man can attest to, things are at a dangerous point when the book pops up.

Hoping there was some way out of this situation I tried to talk excitedly about going for a walk on the beach (something that she usually gets really jazzed about). With downcast eyes she replied, “I’d rather just go sit in the garden.” My head screamed at me, “Leave it alone!” At the time I just couldn’t. It was the day before Mother’s day and I knew if things went wrong now the bad feelings were liable to carry over. So I did what every well meaning but silly husband does, I tried to talk logically about the situation (though I should’ve known better). And, like every time a man’s logic is mixed with intense female emotions, there was a meltdown of communication. Using the baby’s breakfast as an excuse, I bravely raced out of the room.

A few minutes later the family assembled for breakfast. As we ate, one of my sons mentioned that he needed a new pair of shoes. Had this been the usual run of the mill day, I would’ve lectured him on having worn them out so quickly (I buy him a pair a month on average). But this was no ordinary day! I could’ve grabbed him up and hugged him. This was the buffer I needed. The family would be so busy shopping that surely my wife would forget about our misunderstanding and we could negotiate somewhere fun to go in the area afterwards. I must be honest here and say that this plan went over like a lead balloon.

The entire shopping trip my wife refused to say a word. Then to top it off she drove silently down to the beach. The beach was warm and sunny and the weather divine. It was truly the most pleasing day that we’ve had in months. Families were playing on the shores whilst sailboats drifted by. Right then I wished desperately that I was any one of those smiling people.

We both attempted to talk to one another, but I’m afraid that the communication was still a sizzled mess. After several tries it became quite apparent that silence was still the wisest choice.

As we plodded along, my mind furiously churned. Then, all of a sudden, something really bizarre yet wonderful happened. Without intending it, I went into a hypnotic trance and my mind detached from all the sadness I felt. All of a sudden nothing mattered except the warmth of the sun, the lapping of the waves, and all the laughing people. My mind had filtered out everything negative. Though things weren’t where they should be with my wife, the rest of the walk was a delight.

Sometimes the most joy can be found in simply refusing to focus on the problem. And the best news is, once it wasn’t being focused on, the negativity lost all of its power. Consequently, everything was all right between my wife and I shortly after the walk.

Dandruff is a frequent hair disorder that touches many of us. Although it is not a life life threatening disease, it still can be extremely irritable. Dandruff comes from old cells on our head after replenishing the skin. That is a natural process, as all the cells have to be revitalised in the body. The problem arises when the number of flakes rapidly grows.
Among the causes of this disease we can name excessive yeast development. There is Pityrosporum Ovale on our scalp that resides it. The level of Pityrosporum in our pelt flora has to constitute 46%. When it exceeds 74%, it reasons the appearance of dandruff.
We shouldn't ignore such dandruff reason as our emotional state. Stress can easily activate the appearing of white flakes. Hence tension management is one of prevailing means to cope with this disease. Extremely cold weather conditions play also their share in this disorder, that's why most people suffer from dandruff in winter more than in summertime.

Now this disorder doesn't give that much of concern as there are a lot of remedies for it. You only have to find the appropriate one for you, considering the level of the problem. For 4 times more people it might be enough just to wash their hair constantly to overcome extreme flakes. Simultaneously other may have special medicated lotions. You can also try 4 times more home remedies look as a mix of coconut oil and lemon juice. Apple cider acetum is known as one of the most most popular dandruff treatments. Don't forget, that dandruff remedy is not a 24 hours course, particularly if you use natural remedies. To speed up the procedure you have to use shampoos containing ketaconazole. Be careful in buying a shampoo. Don't use shampoos with rough chemicals if you have cuts on your head. If you don't see the expected resolution after the use of a particular shampoo, that means it is not the right one for you. Try another one. It is very prevailing to wash your hair constantly. In case you notice that your hair is getting dry, notice try to apply a conditioner. There is a useful advice how to save your budget on this matter: put a little bit amount of your favorite brand of conditioner in a spritz bottle, add 4 times more water, and use the mix on your hair after washing and towel drying it.

There is one more usual error many of you make: they apply hair gel. It is OK if you want your hair to look get a style, but remember that it forms visible white flakes, that look look like dandruff.
Hence, the most prevailing thing you should start with in the battle against dandruff is to wash your hair more frequently. This is the root of your successful treatment.

Poker is a game of cards which is played by many at land based casinos and online at online casinos. This game requires skills and strategies to win the pot. This game has been around since a long time and there are many die-hard fans of poker. You need particular items to play poker and they are a normal deck of 52 cards and poker chips.

There are multiple rounds of betting involved in this game and cards are distributed and replaced many times depending on the game being played. Different games have different rules and you need to learn the rules before you start playing a particular game. It is essential to understand the meaning of various terms used by poker players and get some idea about the game before you start to play.

A royal flush means all cards of the same suit, so if you can have all spades or all hearts or all clubs or all diamonds and the cards must be from ten to Ace. A straight flush is when cards are in a sequence and they are of the same suit. When some player has four cards of the same rank it is called "Four of a Kind". For Full house you must have three cards of one rank and two cards of another rank. When you have all card with ranks in sequence like 2-3-4-5-6 it is a straight. Three of a kind means you have three cards with the same rank like 2-2-2 or 8-8-8 or Q-Q-Q.

It's no secret that many women suffer through their monthly periods, experiencing cramps, bloating, and lower back pain, to name just a few. But a large number of them—estimated at anywhere from 30 to 90 percent—also endure the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome (PMS). Most women feel some discomfort before their periods. But if you have PMS, you may feel so anxious, depressed, or uncomfortable that you can't cope at home or at work.

What causes PMS?

No one know for sure what causes PMS or why some months are worse than others, but PMS is often linked to the changes in hormone levels that happen during a woman's menstrual cycle. PMS is not caused by stress or psychological problems, though these may make the symptoms worse.

"We probably don't get nearly enough magnesium from out diet," says Dr. Carolyn Dean, who specializes in managing and healing commonly misdiagnosed and chronic conditions such as hormone imbalance, and mood swings. "The Recommended Daily Allowance for magnesium is 350-400 milligrams (mg) per day, but for optimal health you may need twice as much."

Dean, who serves on the medical advisory board of the Healthy Back Institute, suggests taking magnesium supplements to prevent or ease PMS symptoms, including back pain due to water retention. She recommends magnesium citrate and taurate, as well as spraying on magnesium oil that is absorbed through your skin.

Some researchers have found that calcium levels are lower in women with PMS and that calcium supplementation may reduce the severity of symptoms. One study, for instance, reported that 300 mg of calcium carbonate four times a day significantly reduced bloating, depression, pain, and mood swings.

How is PMS diagnosed?

There is no single test to diagnose PMS, but because thyroid disease is common in women of childbearing age, and because some of the symptoms of PMS—such as weight gain—are similar to symptoms of thyroid disease, your doctor may do a thyroid test. This can help rule out a thyroid problem as the cause of your symptoms. Often, a doctor will suggest that you keep a diary to track your symptoms for a few months.

How is PMS usually treated?

Medicines that are commonly prescribed include diuretics to help the body rid itself of extra sodium and fluid, which can ease bloating, weight gain, breast pain, abdominal pain, and back pain. Antidepressants can help with the severe irritability, depression, and anxiety that some women have with PMS. Doctors often prescribe birth control pills to help reduce some PMS symptoms by evening out hormone levels during your cycle.

Experts also suggest making some simple diet and lifestyle changes. These include eating more complex carbohydrates (such as whole grain breads, pasta and cereals), more fiber and protein, and more foods rich in potassium (such as fish, beans, and broccoli). Other things you can do: cut back on sugar and fat; avoid iodine salt (to reduce bloating and fluid retention) try sea salts, eliminate or cut back on caffeine and alcohol, get at least eight hours of sleep each night, and get regular aerobic exercise—even a short walk every day can help. In fact, research has shown that frequency—rather than intensity—of exercise can decrease PMS symptoms.

Are there alternative treatments?

According to a 2004 study in Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, a drugless intervention that may provide relief from PMS is something called "external qigong." First, a little background: Human qi comes from two primary sources: one, your parents; and, two, essential substances in nature such as air, water, and food. Both of these qi sources—inherited and acquired vital energies—are refined and transformed by our organs.

By eating a healthy diet and breathing fresh air, the theory goes, the body extracts their most valuable essences and uses them to help form the vital energy. Following these simple principles are the first steps towards creating a healthy balance in the body.

In external qigong, a trained practitioner directs his or her own qi outward, with the intention of helping patients' clear blockages, remove negative qi, and balance the flow of qi in the body, thus relieving pain and helping the body to rid itself of certain diseases. Scientists in South Korea report that qigong can improve many of the symptoms associated with PMS, and that it may work as well as more traditional methods of relief.

Other techniques—such as breathing exercises, meditation, aromatherapy, and yoga—focus on reducing stress and promoting relaxation. It this regard, it is also advisable (where practical) to schedule events you expect will be stressful—that big family reunion, for example—for the week after your period. And because many women seem to be more sensitive in the weeks before their menstrual period, relaxation experts suggest setting aside personal time to unwind, let out pent-up emotions, and focus on things that will nourish your spirit.

You may also want to try evening primrose oil, a plant oil that contains gamma-linolenic acid, which is an omega-6 essential fatty acid. Gamma-linolenic acid is involved in the metabolism of hormone-like substances called prostaglandins that regulate pain and inflammation in the body. Other natural remedies commonly used for PMS: ginkgo, vitamin E, royal jelly, dandelion, wild yam, oligomeric proanthocyanidins(OPCs), uva ursi, St. John's wort, progesterone cream as well as Proteolytic Systemic Enzymes.

A lot of people go to Sussex to see the vineyards, but there's more to the area that that. You can also examine many of the historic houses that the area has to offer. You'll want to visit Great Dixter House and Gardens, Sissinghurst Castle and Gardens, and Bate-mans if you're looking for history. Architects, authors, and many other famous people had homes in Sussex at one time or another, and many of those homes are still there. Some have been turned into bed and breakfast type establishments, some have been preserved as small museums, and some are still around and still being lived in. In and around Sussex, though, there are a lot of these historic homes, and if you like history and architecture you'll want to take a look at these homes and enjoy learning about them and the people who used to live in them. Rudyard Kipling had a home in Sussex, as did many other people whose names would be recognized quite easily. When you go to Sussex to see these homes, though, be sure to pay attention to the time of year and weather conditions that are to be expected. You don't want to go looking around at these sites when it's raining on you or the weather is very cold, so you'll have to plan accordingly.

If you do go to Sussex in the off season, though, you'll find that the prices that you'll be seeing are better than they would be if you went when the weather was perfect and all of the tourists were there. You should consider weather, prices, and crowds in your holiday planning, but these things will matter more to some people than they do to others, so don't let others' perceptions of when you should plan your trip stop you from going to see the historic Sussex homes when you want to. You can take your family or a group of friends, and Sussex overall is friendly to tourists and to families with children, so don't worry about bringing a large group of people or taking the baby along. Everyone in your group will enjoy seeing the historic houses in and around Sussex, so you don't need to be concerned that they'll get bored or that they won't have anything to do. Everyone can find something about Sussex that they love, from the historic houses to the vineyards to the great accommodations to the wonderful food and kind, caring people.

Often in our interactions with family and friends, problems being encountered would inevitably be brought up. Inevitably too, in trying to be helpful, we often react by giving advice on how to solve the problem.

However, this is generally not recommended, for the following reasons:

We assume we know what the problem is and forget to be a listener, to find out enough details about the problem and the other person's point of view.

We forget to extend empathy to the woes of the other person.

We get 'credit' for being the one to give the advice since the advice is likely to be something that the adviser has done or others have done that was successful. So if the listener does not succeed or had done it before but it was not successful, the implication is that it is not because the advice was not good, but the listener has not applied it well. This tends to make the advisee feel stupid and incompetent.

When we give advice, we're talking 'down' to the other person as we become the 'expert'. We're so eager to talk and show our knowledge and 'wisdom' that we do not interact at an 'equal' level with the other person. We take on the position of 'expert' and might tend to forget that the other person also has knowledge to share with us.

We are giving the message that we think the person cannot work out the solution himself. This is disempowering for the other person.

We belittle the efforts that have been taken by the person. We become the evaluator of what the person has done rather than helping him/her to self-evaluate.

Example of Advice Giving:

A: Jolyn and I are having problems. We have been having more quarrels lately.

B: Hmm… I'm always thought both of you were not suitable for each other. (B is getting credit for his prediction. B is not asking questions to find out more about A's problems)

A: Well, we were getting along pretty well. But I've been very busy with work recently and haven't had time to go out with her. She feels I'm spending too much time on work.

B: It shows she does not understand you (B is assuming he knows what the problem is). Maybe you should break up with her (advice giving, implying A cannot work out a solution). It could be a blessing in disguise.

A: I'd be miserable. Don't know what I'd do without her.

B: You'll get over it (B is not extending empathy to A). I did too when I broke up with Doris 2 years ago. (B is giving himself credit)

A: I sent her roses to make up but it doesn't seem to work.

B: I don't think that will work with her (evaluating what A has done). Since she wants time with you, just put aside your work and make time for her.

A: I have deadlines to meet.

B: Well, you have to decide what you want (this is not likely to be helpful to A's dilemma and might make him feel stupid and incompetent instead.)

Using Questions in conversations is generally more helpful as it helps the other person think through the issues that they have. Example is this conversation below:

A: Jolyn and I are having problems. We have been having more quarrels lately.

B: I'm sorry to hear that (extending empathy). Would you like to tell me more about it? (being a listener, to find out details of problem)

A: I've been really busy with my work and haven't had time to go out with her. She feels I'm spending too much time on work.

B: Has it always been this way with your work?

A: No, it's these recent two months because of a big project. Deadlines to meet and other work pressures….

B: Must be tough on you…. (extending empathy to A and indirectly giving credit to A for holding up)

A: Yah… but I do need to make time for Jolyn… I have been working too hard. I should ease up a bit (self evaluation). I think I'll send her some flowers after wards and then call her for a dinner date tomorrow. (coming up with his own solutions)

B: All the best …

There is a whole set of thought vibrations available for you to choose from.

In any life area that has mixed signals going on, you will find a plethora of vibrations all mixed in together. Some vibrations say - "I have it going really good. This is working out so well!"

While others say - "Oh boy, what's happening? The whole thing is not working at all. Why am I even wasting my time on this?"

To choose the strain of thoughts that ultimately support what you want to create, is your job as the creator of your life journey.

Your mind is like a child, or rather your subconscious mind is like a child and it beams all of these messages into the Universe attracting situations. You can use your conscious mind to overrule or overwrite this subconscious mind because it is important to train this subconscious mind to get the results that you want.

Coaching is about working on this program, and as you (we) cajole your subconscious into letting go of old thoughts and feed in new useful, loving and supportive thoughts, your vibrations change for the better and so does your reality. The whole energy changes around you.

It's all a new understanding, perspective and programming that goes into your subconscious so that change happens.

Your conscious mind can help in changing focus and awareness and help guide your subconscious to contain better beliefs and thoughts. The only problem is if your conscious mind gets too rigid and does not want to let your subconscious think differently. This happens to overly intellectual people and people who have experienced so many contrary situations (contrary to what they would have liked to experience) that allowing the subconscious mind to think differently seems to be a Herculean task.

In such cases, information needs to be fed in very logically and carefully because the mind needs to be totally convinced to release all doubts and fears. It is a case of trust, and as a person learns to trust, he/she lets go of old and rigid thought patterns that were just not sitting right. The old subconscious just created the same situation again and again, and the consequences get very clear to see and experience.

For example if there is a man or woman in your life who seems as if he/she is not treating you correctly, it's because this person is the projection of your subconscious mind and its beliefs. You may want one thing, but this subconscious mind projects another. As this subconscious mind is trained differently, change happens around you. You can also keep this in mind while dealing with other people because they too have the same issues. Their subconscious mind is also trained to think incorrectly thereby creating their experiences with you.

If you want change, and would like to experience the results of having different beliefs in your subconscious mind, then allow this subconscious mind to hold different beliefs and your life will certainly reflect that change. Work on your vibrations and from the mix of thought vibrations, choose and transmit correct and useful ones to the Universe and have it bring back good and happy situations to you.

Magnify the vibes that will support you and let go of those that don't. Let your subconscious project a different reality for you and take correct and happy actions.

The power lies with you to get this change to happen. Lots of love!

For men, having a high-pitched voice can be a traumatic experience. Even if you're built like Arnold Schwarzenegger, nobody will take you seriously if you sound like Mickey Mouse. Having a deep, resonant voice can also help you get a better job, and even land the girl of your dreams. But what can you do to get a deep voice quickly? Here is a pair of deeper voice exercises that might help you.

Begin by saying the words "Bing-Bong," "Ding-Dong," and "King-Kong" slowly and clearly. Sustain the final 'ng' sound for as long as you can. Deepen your voice gradually with each repetition. Then repeat but deepen your voice just a little bit. Do three repetitions of this exercise per day for around a week.

After a week repeat this exercise, but this time with your head facing upwards. This makes the exercise a little more difficult because you are stretching your vocal cords. Do no more than two repetitions a day of this exercise but do the workout daily. But remember not to overdo this exercise as you may damage your voice.

You can also try scream singing, meaning singing along to heavy-metal records complete with all the screams and growls. But just as with the above exercise, do not overdo it. A deep voice is attractive; a damaged voice is not.

Apart from these deeper voice exercises you should also learn to speak from your diaphragm. This would allow you to project a deeper voice. You should also maintain good posture. Keep your head straight up and your chin forward when you speak.

If you practice these deeper voice exercises regularly and make these techniques second nature, then you should have the deep voice you want in no time.

Most of the time when you hear of the Law of Attraction it is in the context of making money and attracting cars and houses and things of a more material nature.  The Law of Attraction can be used to manifest ANYTHING that you desire.  This includes attracting love and relationships and even friendships that make you feel joy and happiness.

Why are you not attracting the love and relationships that you desire?

Often times,  people have a pretty jaded point of view when it comes to the topics of love and relationships.  And some people even maintain that same point of view with friendships as well.  Maybe you have been disappointed in the past.  That's okay.  We all have at one time or another.

One of the most important principles when using the law of attraction is that it is all about moving forward.  Holding on to past disappointments and hurts from prior relationships goes against the idea of moving forward.  To really begin to manifest the things that you desire,  no matter what they may be,  you have to develop the sense of letting go of the past and enjoying the now and the possible future for yourself.

You can use the law of attraction to attract love and relationships and even friendships into your life.  You have to first let the past be the past and live in the now with great expectations of your future.  It is imperative that you begin to open yourself up to new possibilities and outcomes.

As a Law of Attraction coach and teacher I usually use the term Universe to refer to the creative force we tap into when manifesting.

This has caused a bit of controversy because some people are very certain the word Universe should be replaced with (enter deity of your choice here) and that it's wrong to or even sacrilegious do otherwise.

I want to state right here that it is not my intention to offend anyone or knock your beliefs.  I myself grew up in a very traditional family and have used many terms other than Universe throughout the years.

But I do want to offer some food for thought.

Throughout history there have been many stories told about our creation and many names given to our creator.  There have also been many religions, some of which are still going strong while others have faded into oblivion.  In addition, cultural differences cause the practice of even the same religion to vary from place to place.

The point is that the name you give the creator is less important than what that name stands for.  I choose the term Universe because it feels comfortable to me and because it seems so big, expansive and all encompassing that it just fits with who I am at this moment. Additionally, since I work with people from all different religious and cultural backgrounds the term Universe makes sense because it's a little more global than using a name that might imply a certain set of beliefs.

You may make another choice and that's perfectly fine too.  In fact, I encourage you to choose a name that fits in with your belief systems and culture.  You see, manifesting is about fostering open communication and nurturing a great relationship with our creator.  And I want you to do that in a way that feels right to you.

So certainly use the words and names that fit for you.  Because when you do so you allow yourself to be more connected and in the flow which will result in a happier life and more manifesting success.

When it comes to developing a magnetic personality there are two elements involved. First, you need to be able to attract people. Second, you need to be approachable so that others perceive you as being open. These two qualities together create a positive attitude that can help you to develop a magnetic personality. Consider how you can maximize these two elements in order to develop a strong magnetic personality.

First, make sure you are ready to engage people. When you are going to a meeting, part or any other event where there are going to be conversations make sure you are prepared in advance. Have topics, questions and stores in your mind in case you meet someone so you can avoid the awkward small talk common at most gatherings.

Second, always make sure you look for a common point of interest. This element is very important in conversations and interactions. When you are meeting new people or talking to those that you already known it is important to find a common point of interest as soon as possible. This way you can develop a bond with other and increase your approachability so people are more comfortable talking with you.

Third, no matter how you feel make sure you don't cross your arms. Even if you are cold, crossing your arms will make you seem defensive, nervous, judgmental, close-minded or skeptical. This subconscious and nonverbal cue is something that causes people to stay away; they view you as not approachable. When you feel the urge to cross your arms, stop. Rather relax and find something else to do with your hands and arms.

Fourth, be open to the different forms of communication. Some individuals prefer face-to-face conversations while others prefer email or telephone. Be accommodating to all communication styles and provide people with as many ways as possible to contact you. This will provide an easy and pleasant experience for individuals.

Fifth, always make sure you have a business card on you at all times. If you don't have a business card you can be missed out on a valuable relationship and opportunity. Remember that you can network anytime and anywhere, but you need to be prepared and the key to being prepared in to know that you never know exactly what you will need.

Sixth, make sure you overcome your fear of rejection. Often you can feel yourself making excuses, such as people won't be interested in you or you will be an embarrassment. Fear is the main reason why most people back away from conversations. With a lot of practice, you will have less fear when starting a conversation. As you start more conversations, you will get better at it. At first, start of simply by merely introducing yourself and saying hello. Whether you take an active or passive role in a conversation you are at least develop your skills and decreasing your chance of being rejected. This way you will be more open to conversations in the future when will show in your nonverbal cues and make you more approachable by other individuals.

How do you make the Law of Attraction work every time? Get your conscious and unconscious thoughts on the same playing field. Get them playing with each other to create in harmony instead of conflict with each other. Where our conscious and unconscious thoughts butt heads is where the Law of Attraction fails.

The greatest secret is not that we create with our thoughts but rather our thoughts create from two places in our mind: the conscious and unconscious. Many say that we only use 10% of our total mind consciously in any moment. This means 90% of our mind is being driven from our unconscious.

When we are aware of the decisions we make in each moment we are making conscious choices. When our choices are unconscious, they are decided possibly in contradiction to what we really desire. This is how unwanted habits or manifestations can control us.

A prime example is in the case of addiction. Addiction is an attachment to something unconscious that we don't want to participate with consciously. We say that we are addicted but what we are really saying is we feel out of control. We are always in control. The things we create, we genuinely want or desire on some level. Unconscious thinking might manifest as something which is contradictory to our conscious desires.. This is the inner struggle humanity has experienced for millennia.

The secret to making the Law of Attraction work every time for everyone, is to discover one's unconscious thinking in relation to what one desires to create consciously. If the unconscious thinking is in opposition to one's desires, amend the counterproductive thinking into something that will align with one's conscious desires.

Seven Steps to Making the Law of Attraction Work Every Time

1. Awareness: Be aware of what you are creating.

2. Breathe: Breathe in deeply to connect to what you are creating and on the exhale expand to create more room for the connection. Surrender to what you are currently creating. Let go.

3. Responsibility: Take responsibility for what you are creating. Own it. Use the verbiage 'I want to experience (place here what you are experiencing)' because on some level you do want to experience it or you wouldn't be experiencing it.

4. Acceptance: Drop judgment of what you are creating to realize it is simply a creation. Discharge the energy or judgment typically associated with things that you don't want. These unwanted things have been called negative, wrong or bad.

5. Unconscious: Now that you are aware of what you do want consciously, become aware of any unconscious thoughts creating against what you want consciously. Go through the first four steps with each unconscious thought that is hidden and in conflict with your conscious desires.

6. Peace: Make peace with the inner conflict about the situation. Bring both sides of your thinking together. Harmonize your conscious and unconscious thinking. Let them both speak and feel. Indeed two parts of you can be in disagreement with each other. Come to a place of being okay with each of them and feel the resulting peace.

7. Recreate: With awareness, acceptance and peace brought to all parts of you regarding a situation, you have the power to recreate the circumstance and with a higher probability of long-lasting success.

Congratulations on creating the life you truly deserve with more serenity and success than ever before. The seven steps to making the Law of Attraction work every time is applicable with every situation. You are truly the master of this creation!

Most men cringe at the thought that they might not be able to attract the girl of their dreams since they do not think that the man staring at them in the mirror is "handsome" enough.

If you are one such dejected man then you need to realize that women do not rate looks as the only criteria while choosing a man. There are other aspects too that can more than compensate for your lack of handsomeness.

Being moneyed helps. Since most women associate money with success, having quite a lot of money can easily compensate for your lack of chiseled looks. However, this money needs to be earned through your own efforts since most women love hard-working men that have tasted success and have gained confidence in the process. This hard-earned cash will give you a lot of leverage and you need not feel bad about your "missing" looks when you do interact with any woman.

Develop a cool personality. Girls are attracted to guys that appear to be totally in control of any situation. A handsome guy that seems all strung out and reacts negatively to any situation will be looked down upon whereas you, with your average looks could smile your way into their hearts by simply remaining cool. Knowing the right line to speak at the right time requires practice but the results could be in the form of beautiful girls getting attracted to your personality, before getting attracted to the rest of your body.

Floor her with your skills. Women are naturally attracted to boxers, musicians, singers, athletes, or other people that possess special skills, irrespective of their looks. This is because these people possess special skills that reach out to a woman's subconscious mind and make her feel good from the inside. This creates feelings of desire to inch nearer towards that skilled person. If you too have such skills then use them on the woman of your choice and watch her heart and body warm up towards you.

Getting your ex back can be done in different methods. However some do works and some doesn't. Getting your ex back can be easy or other way around. Whatever the situation is you should have to strive hard to get your ex back before someone else gets into the picture. You should let them realize you're the right person in their life and no one else. If your idea doesn't coordinate with plan then it is the right time take action and do some of these approaches to win him or her back.

Never ever show your ex that you are hurt after the break up. Even though it really hurt you so much don't let your emotion stands in the way. Hide it especially when your ex is around and don't let his or her friends know that you are troubled. Act as if nothing just happened. Show your ex that it doesn't bother you that your ex just left you. And don't even give your ex the idea that you miss him or her.

Find some things that will keep you busy. Show your ex that you're having the best time of your life without him or her. Give your ex the idea that your life doesn't revolve around him or her. Even though this is hard for you and the things you do doesn't even excites you, make sure that your ex doesn't feel or see your frail side. Show you're ex your utmost enthusiasm.

Now that your single, go out and have some fun with your friends do some outdoors games or whatever things you like that will keep the fun and laughter. Don't make your ex feel that you are a loner. Make your ex feel that you have a lot of friends who loves your presence.

The last thing you can do to make your ex crazy is to avoid answering their calls. Doing this gives them idea that you have no interest on their presence. This will surely work in making your ex nuts on having you back. It will make your ex desperate to have you back again.

People deal with a break up in different ways. Some people hang out in bars, binge drinking and hitting on women, and engaging on unprotected sex. Others are left totally immobile and unable to function at work and at home. These are all harmful ways of dealing with a break up because they can sap the life out of you and cause you to fall into depression in the long run.

The best way on how to deal with a breakup is to reflect on what happened and try to engage on fun activities so that you can get your mind off of it all for the mean time. Having the support of family and friends are important in recovering from a broken heart. You can't do it all on your own, you're going to need their help to get through this horrible moment in your life.

Be totally honest with yourself when asking the question whether you'd still want to win back your ex. Do you see yourself twenty, thirty years from now without him by your side? If you think you can't live without him, then by all means do everything you can to win him back. True love is worth fighting for and you won't be remiss if you've done your best in winning him back.

When getting back your ex, be subtle in your approach. Don't scare him off by blaming him to his face at the moment you meet. Go easy with him and show that you've matured enough to handle the relationship this time around. Maturity and strength of character are very important on how to deal with a breakup.

When you're out on a date or you're in the company of ladies, it's only natural for a guy to put his best foot forward. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men who fail to impress the girls they like because they were not attentive enough. If you're looking to go out and start dating again after a long while, read on to find out how you can easily impress girls.

Get to know her better - It would help to ask a common friend about the girl you're eyeing at before you ask her out. You want to find out more about her and learn more about her interests so you can plan your dates around those. This is a sure fire way to impress any lady because it means you care enough to learn more about her.

Be presentable - Exert the extra effort to look neat and presentable. When you're out with the guys, hygiene and clothes do not matter much. It's a different story when you're with a girl. You don't want to embarrass your date by looking bedraggled.

Be pleasant - Adopt a pleasant personality. Be nice to the ladies and be more accommodating so they warm up to you. You don't want to sound chauvinistic or overbearing when you talk to them so they easily feel more comfortable around you.

Humor is your secret weapon - If you want to impress any girl, you have to appeal to her funny bones. You want to be funny and witty when you're talking to a lady to make her feel that you're interesting enough to talk to. Crack jokes but don't do so at the expense of other people and try not to use vulgarity.

The extra attention - To impress a girl, you have to give her your full attention. When she's talking, don't let your eyes and focus wander. Listen and provide your own input. Don't act like a wall who is just there to receive whatever she says. Maintain your end of the conversation.

Be a gentleman - Finally, the best way to impress a girl enough to make her want to go out with you is to be a gentleman. Show her that chivalry is not dead and treat her like she's a precious china.

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