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If you know of any man who have ever cheated and you do not understand their reasons why they did so here are some light on this difficulty that many people faces.

Want to feel appreciated

Many men want to feel appreciated and once they get married they feel it becomes routine and who they were before marriage is lost.

Want to feel that they still look good

Many men fear growing old and they want to feel that they still have the ability to attract other beautiful women.

Fear of missing out

As many men grow older they feel when they are with one woman that they maybe missing out on what could be with another.

Fear of commitment

Some men fear commitment because it means that they are tied down and they can no longer play the field.

Some say that they want to settle down but are afraid and feel that their life is over because they will be force to follow what they agreed on which is they want to have their cake and eat it too.

Adding to their trophy

Some men cheat because they look at woman as a trophy and how much they can have so they can brag about it or to feel that they have conquered.

Fear of being vulnerable

Many men are afraid of opening themselves to share, to them it is a women thing and if they were to open up, women will have one up on them.

Opening and sharing men emotion is asking them to talk about feeling that was not welcome or given a voice to them when they were small.

Some men do not know how to open and share their feeling because they were never taught or welcome as a child and when they did it was look upon for some as not masculine enough.

Fear of having only one person all the time

For some men are afraid of being bored with they same woman because they are afraid that they will be bored of the same routine in everything.

Fear of making a mistake

Some men are afraid of having the same woman all the time because if they make a mistake then all of the family will know about it and it will ruin the in-laws lives because of what they have invested in their daughter's marriage.

Fear of becoming serious

Some men cheat because when they get hook up with a woman they feel she is demanding and the fun goes out of her, she becomes serious so they will accept this knowing that they can have something going with another.

Fear of becoming dependent

Some men cheat because if the woman that they are with said that she has a headache and there are no intimacy when he wants it then he does not have to worry he can go out and get it from another so he does not become dependent on her.

Fear of abandonment

Some men cheat because they fear of being abandon by a woman if they invest too much in her or the relationship and if they have another woman on the side it will not hurt as much because they have some else to replace her.

Fear of losing their freedom

Some men cheat because they are afraid of losing their freedom when they get involve with another either for a long term relationship or marriage.

Some men cheat because they feel that they are restricted on who, what or when they go out because they will be check up on so they have to hide.

Fear that she will be controlling

Some men fear that they will have a woman who is controlling their life like they see with their father or other men so they rather play the feel because they do not know how long they will have to be single.

Fear of taking their place

Other men fear to take their place because that will mean that they will be responsible for another and they do not want that so they rather hide act innocent and have an affair because they feel a sense of freedom.

Conclusion: Some men cheat for many different reason and to all of them the desire to do so is much stronger than not to do so.